From child, I’ve taught the thought of “listen to your parents”.

And I have been vulnerable; because I rely on my mother for food and money.

But after I start working, this is not the case anymore; why I sink into thoughts when she send me suggestions for money and work?

that makes me reflect on my own relations about parent an people.

Money is just a baseline for work. More importantly, it is for understanding social structure and learn from them.

Home is also a miniture of society thoughts

my parent is a part of their society. my mother just listens what the manager says. she lose the ability of peace and thought. and that’s the center of mind.

the construction people is very malicious. they use the cheapest material on you.

There is no such thing as “China”

It seems the knowledge about money is the only thing my mother can teach me. But what can she do? She was born in the era of the culture revolution.

The thought about education should change. Parents should care more about human rights.

A TG friend got a small injury in road, and passer-by is willing to help. And that’s the social atmosphere at Japan.

Big city already have many problems. Fixing them is more useful than creating problems at home.

For a example about environment, Germany ban the use of soap for washing cars at home, because they can pollute the groundwater.

But at home, people just put the waste water in the ground; the car washing shops do so as well!

the root of society

the quality of society is determined by it’s education, medical and living standard. And that’s why I won’t go back to rural area: it has niether of this.

how education affects people

• know more part of the world.

how medical affects people

• healthy lifestyle.
• know society.

how living affects people

• well, it was invisible, but is the most important.

the thought about money should change

• “You have been out for many years, you must have some money”

No; Being in a new environments need adaption, and money is a must resource.

• “If you don’t save money, it will be even harder to earn in the future, let alone save it”

No; when you sit down to learn, it will broden your sights, as well as get a better job.

• “Money is saved bit by bit”

No; If you earn enough, you will have more money naturally.

• “you can save ¥2,500 with ¥3,000 salary”

But at what cost? The cost of health was much more expensive.

I can somewhat understand that people are willing to tell legands :) but a much harsh reality awaits you if you believe it.

• “If you can’t find a job outside, you can come back, live at home, and do odd jobs in your hometown”

Ridiculous! You will be fully dependent on rural society! and what can you learn from them?

Well, I can somewhat conclude the pattern: they have earn enough money during the new year holiday, and want to become the new middle class, so they are recuriting people.

Most importantly, there is some place that can already understand the thought about rural people and actively using it. If you don’t change, you will die. and I just barely escape it.