I just had a physical examination, and it says that I may have liver problems.
(Liver problems are always hard. In Catch-22, Yossarian stays at hospital for several months by faking a liver problem…)
Then I decide to take more checkups in the hospital, but I discovered many differences between male and female in this process…
Female cares more for others
Well the first time I arrived at hospital, the nurse looks into me, with a very clear eye. She may want to help me. (But I’m very reculant and do things myself.)
After a long waiting, I talked the issue with doctor. She suggests me to do a Color Doppler Ultrasound, because MRI is expensive. (I don’t know how expensive it is until the second appointment…)
Male is more looking for money
I use taxi for fast arrive to the examination center. There is one driver don’t open heating and he don’t ask it. his inconsideration makes me I feel very disturbed…
In the second appointment, the doctor suggests me to do an enhanced MRI scan. it’s very expensive - about ¥1300 in total, which empties my medical insurance balance, and I have to pay an extra ¥500 myself. And there might not be severe problems.
Also, you need someone to accompany you in an enhanced MRI scan. I find that very incovenient; so I visit the doctor again, wanting to change it to a normal scan. But he argues that you may need to do it again, and try to use terms that are hard to understand.
More about business
Well I always think bad about female; that’s because I have many problems with my job in the past, and I turned to blame HR.
But the end result they brought to me is always good. I misunderstand them a lot.
The way forward
I try to not care about money, but my money isn’t free too.
I try to break gender gaps, and brings male to areas that are previously handled by females. So I get a male nurse. but is is also asking for large amount of money… (the female one suggest me to find another one)
Also, I need to give the females who really supports me a good treatment, and make friends with more female co-workers.